Miss Princess has been a little “challenging” of late. Or should I say a little more “challenging” than usual.
It seems that her usual temper tantrums and cranky moods have, well, cranked up a notch or seven. I thought that as she closed in on turning four things might settle down a little. I was oh so VERY wrong.
For the record we’ve no idea where this hot temper comes from, she can’t blame it on a horrid babyhood.
This child hung out in a sling until she was 14 months old, co-slept from birth until she slept through at two and a half and was breastfed to the age of three. Nothing to complain about there.
We’re blaming a genetic throwback…though I do suspect it’s more a genetic combination issue.
It’s cranky pants central at Oopsiemumma headquarters on Monday’s when big brother gets to go to school but she doesn’t. And all hell breaks loose after her Monday mid-morning gymnastics lesson because she doesn’t want to leave.
And Friday’s…well let me just say that every second Friday when kindy isn’t on, I start reaching for the wine bottle before 2pm. Totally acceptable to do that on a Friday I believe.
The meltdowns and tantrums reached fever pitch today, by the time I got home from school pick-up I was ready to run away from home.
So Mr Fix-It stepped in. I’m not sure whether it was to save my sanity or to save Miss Princess from me, but either way it worked.
He taught her to breathe.
Five deep breaths every time she got angry.
And it worked.
By the time bedtime rolled around she was deep breathing so much that I thought I’d need to get her a brown paper bag. I actually thought she was going to hyperventilate.
Let’s hope for some more deep breathing in the morning when she realises it’s the weekend and kindy still isn’t on!
Do you have a temper tantrum calming technique?